Wednesday, April 9, 2008

Hope You Enjoy!

Hope everyone is enjoying the blog, I really am! So, last I left you I went to check on an Ibu, a young 18 year old named Komang. So beautiful! Her family spoke a good bit of English and revealed to me that they were all very disappointed with her for getting pregnant out of wedlock and loosing her chances to go to college. This is a more privileged family who sent their other daughter to college here on Bali, she was also attending the birth. I tried to share with the grandmother and the sister that we are already in this place, and here we are at the birth...so let's support Komang and focus on the here and now without dwelling on mistakes! We are gonna have a baby!!! They agreed, we all have a special bond after that. The mother moved quickly, as I mentioned she might and by 9:15 am we had a beautiful water birth! The mama was making better progress squatting in the tub rather than reclining so she delivered the head in a squat in the tub. When the head popped out she instinctually rocked forward onto her hands and knees. Fine by me...especially since I ended up dealing with a shoulder dystocia, where the shoulders are "stuck" and need some coaxing/assistance to be delivered. The hands and knees position is very beneficial for birthing a baby who has "sticky shoulders" so the position was excellent. It is ideal for the shoulders and body to be delivered before 5 minutes after the birth time of the head. So I worked the shoulders a bit and...voila! A chunky little bugger emerged...who was actually mostly chunky in his head and chest only and more petite toward the lower body. Beautiful birth with a minimal but complicated tear that I hope responds well to the stitching. I have gotten so much faster with my suturing skills here, which is a sweet relief b/c spending time hunching over a mama is tiring for me but also interferes with mama/baby bonding. So now my clients will be able to get to mothering sooner, rather than later! Nice! Also, there is no time for slow stitching around here...b/c we need the beds:) No sooner did I wrap things up with this family before I found myself at another birth! It wasn't the other Ibu who had showed up last night, we actually sent her home b/c her labor fizzled out, it just wasn't time.
I ran over to the ashram to grab a shower and breakfast. I sat here at the clinic eating my breakfast, filling out paper work and debriefing about the birth. Then I headed into the post-partum room to put away some breast pump and bottle parts I had cleaned. I heard a commotion outside...whe you hear a commotion around here you grab gloves, it is instinct! So that is what I did. Just in time to help a groaning and sweating Ibu out of the taxi with her husband. BabyTime! Fifteen minutes later I was catching another little chunker. I guided the sister-in-law who accompanied her to get behind Ibu to help prop her up, she was pretty much a wet noodle! She pushed so gracefully and delivered a sweet little dude with a perfectly round head. Five baby boys in a row around here. Good Luck for sure!!!
I guess you could say this is my ideal day so far...but next walked in a sweet old guy from a village 3 hours away. He had gashed his wrist big time! Time to put on the gloves:) I just helped this guy clean his wound, changed the bandage and gave him some bandaging supplies for later and some anti-biotic ointment. The local midwife gave him some antibiotics as a preventive measure. Preventive measures are big around here b/c infection is pretty much a given! The local midwife didn't want me to send him home with a roll of the nice first aid tape that is waterproof, I tried to convince her but she wasn't going for it. We have a ton of the stuff and we just told him to change the bandage regularly. So what is he gonna do tomorrow or the next day!? When the midwife walked away I snuck a roll into his friends breast pocket and winked. The guy looked at me and winked too and said, "Makasi (thank you)." Enough Said!

2 comments:

Unknown said...

Hi Rebecca,
Dad has been staying up later & later every night, waiting for your next installment from Ubud! He loves it ... and so I! Each woman is there for the same reason, of course, but each life- story is so different. It's truly fascinating! I laughed so at the birth of the purple-faced boy whose little brother went to pieces upon seeing his hugeness! I can just imagine what was going through his little mind, can't you? Your pics are also wonderful -- I think your little ashram is charming from the outside -- how is it from the inside?
Here's a laugh for you from the "civilized world." Today, as I was sitting on the potty (not to be confused with the birthing potty) to enjoy a celestial experience at work, my cell phone fell in along with ... you guess?! Much screaming and scrambling ensured, with the result that I was able to fish the phone out fairly quickly using a ton of paper towels ... but, alas, not soon enough. Its little chip had been drowned .. buried at sea, even! I'm now the proud owner of a new improved cell phone -- much larger buttons & print for Dad's sake, a snap-secured holder for my sake, and a funny story to tell!
You sound well, loving what you're doing,and enjoying good spirits -- I'm so very glad. Please do remember to tend to yourself ... there is so much asked of you, some must be given back.
Guess my comment is as long as your blog ... didn't mean for that to happen! Please call if you have the occasion, or tell us when you'll be at the clinic, and we'll call you there. It would be wonderful to hear your voice.
With much pride and love,
Mom

Sierra Elliott Thompson said...

Reebs! We are all so proud of you! Your blog is wonderful; I appreciate how thorough it is... even remembering to catch us up on stories you had started earlier. A wonderful book in the making?
Everyone is thinking about you. Chica, too, misses her mama, but is so happy for you!